Audio Downloads of Daily Discussions on Karmayogi's Commentaries on Pride and Prejudice
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Volume 3 Chapter 2
Download Link:2009-11-08Context in the novel:Elizabeth informs the Gardiners about Darcy’s arrivalPrinciples:imparted no small degree of surprise to her relations – the embarrassment of her manner as she spokeTopics discussed:Bhishma, receiving and offering help, intensity of surprise, social power and social evolution, amazement, embarrassmentQuestions raised:When we want to help another, do we have to look at the motive, the recipient and our attitude first?
Can we pray for another, can we have an impact on another's life?
Is it wrong to have goodwill for another?
Is consecration the safest answer in any situation?
When we help another and things go wrong, can we safely assume that our motive was wrong?
If one is trying to analyze why helping went wrong, we might not have all the information, the act might not have played out fully. So how can we find out at any time what the truth is?
Is it that the person who has the highest ideal accomplish?
How can one consciously widen one’s perspective? -
Volume 3 Chapter 2
Download Link:2009-11-07Context in the novel:Elizabeth sees Darcy arrive at the inn with GeorgianaPrinciples:Elizabeth immediately recognized the livery – guessed what it meantTopics discussed:Admiration, sacrifice, falsehood, helping another, sincerity, BhishmaQuestions raised:How do we look at a person who has achieved more than us?
Isn’t Bhishma's sacrifice admirable?
Regardless of the cause we are sacrificing for, do our attitude and selflessness determine the outcome?
Is Rama’s sacrifice noble?
How can we find out whether a woman is being dominated or is submissive by nature?
Can one person pray for another person to get better?
When someone is not doing the right thing, what is the best thing we should do or feel?
Does physical nature itself have falsehood, or is the falsehood in my view of things?
Only after we rise from one level, we realize we were false earlier. When we are at the same place, level or situation, how can we recognize the falsehood then?
When something is going wrong, how to see it neutrally and see it for what it is?
Why is Elizabeth perceptive about Caroline, but not about Wickham?
Did Darcy's 'tolerable' set Elizabeth off against him? -
Volume 3 Chapter 2
Download Link:2009-11-06Context in the novel:Darcy and Georgiana arrive at the innPrinciples:They saw a gentleman and a lady in a curricleTopics discussed:Nature, karma, interest, restraint, consecrationQuestions raised:How can we dissolve karma?
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Volume 3 Chapter 2
Download Link:2009-11-05Context in the novel:Darcy brings Georgiana earlier than expectedPrinciples:and consequently resolved not to be out of sight – But her conclusions were falseTopics discussed:Romance, grace, life, what comes from life, our sanction, problem, its purpose, our response to it, luck, psychic openingQuestions raised:What should we do to remember all that we learn, and implement it at all times?
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Volume 3 Chapter 2
Download Link:2009-11-04Context in the novel:Darcy wishes to introduce his sister Georgiana to ElizabethPrinciples:Elizabeth settled that Darcy would bring his sister – She expected them the very day after reaching PemberleyTopics discussed:Subtle indications, witnessing a miracle and forgetting it later, thoughts, routine, dullness, freshnessQuestions raised:Is everything indicated earlier?
Is everything that happens an indication?
How can we make use of this knowledge that everything is indicated earlier?
When we get positive and negative indications, how should we react to them? How can we make sure the positive things come true in our lives, and the negative things do not happen to us?
What can Jane understand from her first year’s experience with Bingley? Will her initial unexpected happiness, later disappointment and ultimate marriage be reflected in her married life?
How can one stop oneself from going back to our old ways?
What is a dull idea and how can we replace it with a higher idea? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-11-03Context in the novel:Elizabeth does not know what to make of the change in DarcyPrinciples:Mrs. Gardiner was surprised and concerned – Above all his wishing to introduce his sisterTopics discussed:Life evaluates one not by what one does but by what one is, disturbed energy, danger, newness, habit, energy, psychic can emerge in freshness, truth and falsehood, excitement, vital, impulses, sincerity, awareness of consequences of expressing an impulse, learning, leveling off, vital falsehood, renunciation, ceremonies, combining the higher with the lower, routine, subconscious motive, smallness, meanness, faith, opposition to something good, outer-inner correspondenceQuestions raised:How is falsehood hidden so completely that we are unaware of it?
What should we do so the safe, false, defensive answer doesn’t slip out of us before we can even think of telling the truth?
How to bring our impulses under control?
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Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-11-02Context in the novel:Elizabeth reveals a little of the truth about Wickham to the GardinersPrinciples:She related all the pecuniary transactions between Darcy and Wickham – Mrs. Gardiner was surprised and concernedTopics discussed:Money, harmonious marriage as a national asset, love, caution, progress by mistake, falsehood, speech, beauty, suspicion, taste of ignorance, rational faith in an irrational methodQuestions raised:What do we know of Wickham by observing his money transactions?
Is beauty not enjoyed by emotions?
When we can make progress without suffering, why do we not make it?
Can we say it was Mrs. Gardiner's goodwill that brought Mary King at that point?
What happens when we expose ourselves or our falsehood?
Why does Elizabeth not tell Colonel Fitzwilliam about Jane when he talks about Darcy’s interference with Bingley? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-11-01Context in the novel:Elizabeth reveals a little of the truth about Wickham to the GardinersPrinciples:As Darcy and Wickham had been considered in HertfordshireTopics discussed:Behavior, character, surrender, will, self-discipline, culture, self-restraint, values, freedom, personality, strength, superstition, money, truth, self-deception, falsehoodQuestions raised:As Bingley is a lightweight, does it mean he doesn’t have a strong ego, and will it be easier for him to make spiritual progress?
Should you have a will to surrender the will? Will Darcy be able to surrender completely to Mother?
What does it mean to have a strong will?
How does one improve, strengthen one's will?
If Jane had insisted on taking the carriage instead of going on horseback, would she be exercising her will?
Where do you draw the line between being assertive and being strong willed?
Whatever our capacity is, when we know something is right, does it show our strong will if we follow through to complete it?
Does Wickham exercise his will at any point?
What is the difference between practicing self-giving and being submissive?
What does the difference in the responses of Collins and Darcy, to Elizabeth's rejection, indicate?
What sets Elizabeth and Charlotte apart from each other? Both can see clearly that Collins and Lady Catherine are not sensible. But Elizabeth and Charlotte behave differently towards them.
How to differentiate between behavior and character? How to stay from judging a person's character from their past behavior?
Who in story deceives himself?
Is the sense of security that money gives a falsehood?
How can one replace the sense of security provided by money, by Mother's security? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-31Context in the novel:Elizabeth reveals a little of the truth about Wickham to the GardinersPrinciples:Darcy’s actions were capable of very different construction – Nor Wickham so amiableTopics discussed:Other man's point of view, receiving information, sensation, energy, gratitude, mindQuestions raised:If I think of a business idea, how do I express it but stay from taking credit or feeling egoistic about it?
How do you reconcile your aspiration for progress and your egoistic ambition?
Is the best way to succeed not wanting to succeed?
If you want something badly, then how can you force yourself to forget it and aspire for something higher?
Is it egoistic to ask, ‘what did I do to deserve this’?
Why did Darcy pursue Elizabeth, he would have met so many other women from his own level.
Why does it happen that when we are eager to say something to someone, they suddenly become interested in something else?
Is just the highly felt thought enough to transfer energy?
Gratitude is an emotion. Appa says "The power of gratitude is felt when it is an emotion". So how does it reach the emotions?
Is the heart the center of the higher emotions?
What does spiritual gratitude mean? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-30Context in the novel:Elizabeth reveals a little of the truth about Wickham to the GardinersPrinciples:I could hardly help laughing aloud sometimes – Therefore gave them to understand in a guarded manner how Wickham was to be understoodTopics discussed:Consecrating an impulse, structure of society, self-defense, energy released in breaking a structure, consequences of service to falsehoodQuestions raised:Should we pray to Mother for a speedy response, or just leave it to her, if we want to hear some news?
Can we say Lady Catherine goes outside the social structure for a selfish motive, and Elizabeth later does the same thing?
What energy is released in breaking a structure?
Spiritually what does it mean to have brothers and sisters?
Should we close our ears to unpleasant news?
Should we avoid rejection, which is the first step towards transformation? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-29Context in the novel:The Gardiners form a good opinion about DarcyPrinciples:It emerges when he speaks – The good lady gave him a flaming character – Mrs. GardinerTopics discussed:Subtle Indication, cause, contradictions, dissolve ego, refusing what life gives, honor, social response, giving and receiving, process of creation, key to mastery, formal and informal behaviorQuestions raised:If Darcy had paid attention to any other girl, would that girl have transformed like Elizabeth did?
What should be the right attitude in receiving knowledge?
Will any refusal have negative consequences?
Why does Elizabeth alone get many opportunities for transformation?
How can we know how to respond? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-28Context in the novel:The Gardiners form a good opinion about DarcyPrinciples:I should not have thought that he could have behaved in so cruel a way as he had done by poor Wickham – On the contrary there is something pleasing about his mouthTopics discussed:Romance, supramental power, The Bridges of Madison County, materialism, true happiness in life, domination, response of the lower to the higher, consecrating our impulsesQuestions raised:All energy is absorbed in romance. Are we not supposed to get infinite energy?
What prevented the lady in The Bridges of Madison County from following her romance?
What is the need for physical proximity if romance can be fulfilled emotionally?
How do we know how much we value money? How to differentiate between need and greed?
What is it in life that gives true happiness?
How can a person who is selfless survive in this world?
Is having children an individual, biological or social need? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-26Context in the novel:The Gardiners are puzzled by Darcy’s pleasant behaviorPrinciples:Elizabeth had never seen him so pleasant as that morning” – “I shall not take him at his word about fishingTopics discussed:Ego, Phineas Finn, psychic, forgetting a problem, love, doubtQuestions raised:Is it better not to ask Mother to solve a problem, or is it better to pray to Her for a solution?
Shouldn’t Darcy's love get him Elizabeth's love?
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Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-25Context in the novel:Elizabeth has to explain Darcy’s behavior to the GardinersPrinciples:Elizabeth excused herself as well as she couldTopics discussed:9 Stages, consecration, surrender, faith in our effort vs. faithQuestions raised:In the 9 stages, what can we do about delight and ecstasy, which cannot be done through human effort?
Do the stages overlap, or are they stages?
Do the levels have a role in self giving?
Is it better to just consecrate, or consecrate and then start searching, when we have lost something?
Isn’t personal effort also required, to achieve?
If I can totally consecrate, do I still need to work?
When do you just consecrate, when do you consecrate and also work?
Is there truth in saying God helps those who help themselves?
Doesn’t aspiration itself become an initiative?
Do only those who consecrate see success, don’t others see miracles?
How can one consecrate?
How can we consecrate issues we are not directly related to, but which affect us in some way? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-20Context in the novel:Elizabeth and the Gardiners leave PemberleyPrinciples:Mr. Darcy handed the ladies into the carriageTopics discussed:Idea, courteous behaviorQuestions raised:Why do some people give importance to practices like not using the left hand or rising to receive another, whereas some people don’t feel they are necessary?
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Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-19Context in the novel:Elizabeth declines Darcy’s offer to have tea at PemberleyPrinciples:her patience and ideas were nearly worn out before the tete-a-tete was over” – But the refreshments were declinedTopics discussed:Superstition, love, romance, marriage, refusal, defectsQuestions raised:When Jane is looked down upon by Caroline, what could the correspondence for such an attitude be in Jane?
Why does Elizabeth see more of her mother's anger than the other girls?
Why are lovers unable to see the defect in the other, but are able to after marriage?
Will romance continue if it doesn’t end in marriage?
What should we aspire for? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-16Context in the novel:Elizabeth and Darcy make conversationPrinciples:They talked of Matlock and Dove Dale with great perseveranceTopics discussed:Consecration, non reactionQuestions raised:How do we consecrate a past event?
How can we rise above self-righteous indignation? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-15Context in the novel:Elizabeth and Darcy make conversationPrinciples:She wanted to talk – There seemed to be an embargo on every topicTopics discussed:Tyranny, war, surrenderQuestions raised:One would expect that the victim would not victimize when he gains power. But why does he tyrannize in his turn?
Will Asia and Africa eventually stop warring like Europe
What should our attitude be when there is war in the country? Can we pray to Mother for our country's protection? -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-14Context in the novel:Darcy invites Elizabeth inside the housePrinciples:He then asked her to walk into the houseTopics discussed:Reversal, change -
Volume 3 Chapter 1
Download Link:2009-10-11Context in the novel:Darcy and Elizabeth remember their last meeting at HunsfordPrinciples:if she might judge from his complexion - his Mind was not very differently engagedTopics discussed:Universality, attitude evokes response, economics, life is subtle, unity, accomplishment, integral accomplishment, gratitude, romance, risk and responsibility, the lower end and the higher end of workQuestions raised:What is the ideal way to study economics?
What is money?
What are the signs of true accomplishment?
What is the best way to feel gratitude always?